Brothers in arms dating has now become more of a war than a pleasure. With more and more disillusioned and entitled princesses who look like Gorilla Zoe on their best days and have the attitude of New York (she looks good on certain days but her attitude is still shit) we need to play around or date defensively. Even with online dating, you have some alright women but most of them make you think WTF. You have some campaigning for someone to take care of their kids (if that’s your thing then there’s no judgement here) and some with unrealistic expectations.
One woman who wasn’t very attractive had 3 kids lived with her mom, no job said she would only kick it with dudes who had a place, a car and made $50K and up. White knights, tricks and manginas put your capes on and save her. Fucked up thing is, I know at least ten dudes that have and would. This is the majority I see. On the other hand I’ve seen some decent women that dress alright but those are far and few between. I digress.
Given with an act that allows people to have birth control insured (someone check me on that) we’ll have to deal with more BS and might have to use slightly darker game just to get a foot in. Speaking on darker game it seems that even the good girls respond to it and eat this shit up. You simply can’t say “how are you today” without having to check her ten minutes into the convo because the previous cat was willing to drop $100 or more on a date for her. Its still trickin if you got it.
I hate to admit this but the manosphere is right, we have to damn near stay on defense now and days, even at a stage where you should be able to let your guard down for a second. Or maybe I need to move to a new city with more receptive and desirable women or maybe this is my current mind set due to me re-unplugging from the matrix and shocking the shit out of myself.
Why do I call it a war and defensive dating? Simply because of the machiavellian tactics one has to use sometimes to get past bullshit walls. (It bothers me some still even though I can be one of the most Machiavellian people I know. Shit, I made a narcissistic statement, yea I think that Dark Triad is strong in me) Reading books, blogs and hearing accounts of the dating field is like seeing The Art of War in action. Brothers in arms, we are at war