Category Archives: Knowledge

Why So Serious? Its Her Damn Outburst

……not yours. A lot of men seem to jump everytime a
woman has an outburst. Get used to it brother, its encoded in her DNA. Although both sexes have emotions (that’s what seperates us from robots and soon to be sex bots), the emotional realm belongs MAINLY to women.

Since most women aren’t physically stronger than men, with the exception of the chicks on American Gladiators, they rely more on emotional strength. Women are hard-wired (well soft) to throw childlike trantrums as a form of soft dominance.

If you’ve ever given in to a tantrum and felt like a bitch afterwards, then yea, you got indirectly punked. There are sometimes these emotional outbursts are genuine: death in the family, hard day at work or school. However if your head is telling you that its silly and you’re fighting over some bullshit like who left the toil seat up, just let her ass talk.

Fantasize about (insert your favorite eye candy here) or just nod and say “ok,” “whatever,” “cool.” Show little to no emotion. It’s her emotional outburst, not yours. Let her ride that shit out. Don’t get caught up in her wave, just calmly surf that bitch back to the surface.

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What I’m Reading 9-14-2012

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/14/taking-a-break-from-bloggin-brahs/ – “Taking A Break From Bloggin Brahs” – Solo. I get my first shout out in the sphere.

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/12/generation-princess-are-all-women-slores/ – “Generation Princess: Are All Women Slores?” – Solo. A must read for those noticing the not-so trend of self-shooters.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/09/06/women-studies/ – “Women Studies” – Rolo Tomassi.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/08/29/year-one/ – “Year One” – Rolo Tomassi.  Rolo, gets up in your ass with this one. It’s a compilation of some his best posts of his first year in the manosphere.

http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/2012/09/10/the-contract-part-3-pua-instructor-speers-fallout-with-the-venusian-arts-crew/ -“The Contract Part 3: PUA instructor Speer’s Fallout With The Venusian Arts Crew” – Social Kenny. I’m still tripping off the PUA wars man.

Once again, stop the TL:DR shit. Read, learn and apply.

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Flexibility

In my opinion after trial and error, I have come to the conclusion that one of the only hard and fast rules is be wary of hypergamy.  I know you might read sites that might say “this theory is the only theory that works,” “do this theory and she will love you forever and will never leave,” “do this or be labeled beta (or what ever term you equate negativity with)” but I have found that sometimes the very rule you break might be the one you can use to your advantage.

In the manosphere the latest trend is no fat chicks.  Well, sometimes you might need to break that dry spell and may end up smashing a chubby chick, only if I found her cute. (I can’t do 300 or 400 lbs, I can’t bribe my dick that way).  Did I follow the rules? No. Did I feel better after busting that nut? Yes, especially if it was one of the times I had a three month dry spell.

My point is that you have to find out what rules you must follow and which ones you can break and remain flexible. Who knows you might come up with a rule that might be beneficial

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These Bitches In My Phone Game

Having pictures of bitches in your phone can be a good or bad thing. In my opinion it’s a good thing. Why? Because it shows that women want you, that you’re desirable by the opposite sex.  I’m not a PUA and don’t know all the jargon and acronyms/abbreviation but I think that it hints at DHV (demonstration of high value I believe) and social proof.  In my opinon it depends on her value relative to yours.  I think it’s especially good when these women wear sexy ass dresses, bikinis and some have even been bold enough to tell me  to put their pics of them in boyshorts and as their contact picture when they pop up. (I think it’s some sort of way to mark her territory.) I’ve had this done before unintentionally had some women look at me with the damn-this-dude-got-swag-face and drop off the digits and trying to compete with the other chick. Some form of hypergamy is my guess.

The bad side is if you have too much value over her (but then again some women are like that) and give off too much of a player vibe (Here again I call bullshit and call this a subconscious shit test) you might scare her off.  If starts to draw back give her a little assurance, even if you’re just going in for the lay.  My advice, don’t delete pics that girls send you. Hide the XXX rated shit, no matter how fine she is. Aim for something seductive and sensual like a girl with a nice figure and her wearing a dress that shows off every immaculate curve and her blowing a kiss or some shit. It may work or it may not but at least she knows she’s not fuckin with a blue pill wimp.

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Rant: The Sexual Market Place

The Sexual Market Place won’t change in the direction we want within in the next 50-70 years, so why would I sit here and complain about it.  If I’m learning about hypergamy and learning to navigate it, I at least have a life preserver on if I get thrown into the rough seas and have a chance to get back up on land and keep pushing. I understand the pain of everything wanting to return to how it was before. Hearing about the old school SMP made me jealous but, it is what it is and we as men have to just rock with the new market and keep going. Even if it means we have to keep hamsters spinning and keeping women/hoes/bitches/sluts in check. If you want to be ultra realistic about it,  trying to slut shame this generation 25-40 probably work as well as trying to use a foam wall to stop a bulldozer. Some pieces of foam might caught up in the gears and stop it temporary but not enough to make it semi-permanent or permanent

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Tailor Your Game To Suit You

It’s good read game blogs, in moderation of course and learn some of their techniques, mindsets and etc, but only one thing is missing. They’re not YOU. You have to take what you learn and tailor it to your situation, personality and whatever factors are present. You may be good at caveman game and a lot of females respond to it, however if it’s not in your personality to do that all the time, then tone some of that shit down. If you’re not that much of a smooth talker, don’t make that your default game. Take some classes, watch a few videos or talk to some of your smoother buddies about it.

One thing that I can tell you that might work is to just learn the fundamentals of game and work from there. How do you think Jordan and Kobe got good at basketball. They worked on the fundamentals and added bits of themselves from there.

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What I Learned Reading “The Game” (by Neil Strauss/Style)

Most of the best PUAs In the book started off nerdy as hell, some of them remained that way.

Mystery did too much shit in the beginning, but at least he became more social as a result

There’s peacocking, then there’s premadonna, IMO only a woman should have over the top make up, eyeliner and accessories.

Women with “bitch shields,” and “inflated egos” do need to get knocked down the peg.  If she was the greatest woman walking, she wouldn’t be single.

Even married women doing the same need to be brought back down to earth

Men can be attention whores too

There was way too much time spent trying to get some pussy. Yes pussy is good as hell but it seemed like these people didn’t say much about outside hobbies.

The HB scale is flawed, because it varies by the preference of the person.

It’s good to have male friends to swap war stories with, however to only go out and beat the pussy up to brag about it to others seems off.

At some point in time you’ll have to leave “The Community” because that shit tends to drive people crazy.

Analyzing is great but over-analyzing can drive a man insane.

Being thirsty is counter intuitive to game

Eventually you must take what you learn and put your own spin to it.

The Mystery Method worked best for him because he is Mystery

Don’t get your ass beat trying to take another dude’s girl. If she chooses, she’ll find a way to get to you.

Even your “bros” in  “The Community” can sell you out for some pussy. (Not all do)

The majority of validation should be internal and from self, not only external from friends and women.

Being an entertainment monkey is only the first few times around.

Balance your life out with more than just pick up, shit does tend to fall when you don’t take care of your priorities.

Neil/Style had great insight and could read people

I’ve noticed a pattern of people almost getting fired or getting fired for spending too much time in  “The Community.” Again,  balance.

Keyboard jockeying is bullshit. Real world experience >  Keyboard Jockeying.

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What I’m Reading 7-20-2012

http://marriedmansexlife.com/2012/07/when-she-makes-sudden-positive-changes-for-bullshit-reasons/ “When She Makes Sudden Positive Changes For Bullshit Reasons ” – Athol Kay.

This doesn’t mean be paranoid as hell but keep your eye open for the REAL reason behind shit.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/07/19/white-knight-porn/ “White Knight Porn” – Rollo Tomassi

A LOL post but an eye opener.

http://www.flipthegame.net/2012/07/online-dating-pt-1.html  “Online Dating Pt. 1” – MackNificent/Flip The Game

Some common sense talk about online dating practices.

http://therawness.com/reader-letters-1-part-4/ “Reader Letters 1 part 4” – Ricky Raw

This series is an absolute MUST READ. I linked part 4 because it touches on the seduction “community.”

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What I’m Reading 7-12-2012

http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/2012/07/10/the-hypocrisy-of-religious-women-and-sexplus-frame-control/ “The Hypocrisy of Religious Women and Sex Plus Frame Control” – SocialKennyPUA

A good post about keeping the frame in seduction.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/07/11/denial/ “Denial” – Rollo Tomassi 

Read the full post if you just recently have unplugged and need a reminder.

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2012/07/10/the-comments-make-the-blog/ “Comments That Make The Blog – The Private Man

Some good wisdom in the beginning of the post.

http://realmacktalk.blogspot.com/2012/02/de-programming-your-inner-simp.html “Deprogramming Your Inner Simp” – Mack Damage

A good post to start to unplug with. 

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