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What I’m Reading 9-14-2012

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/14/taking-a-break-from-bloggin-brahs/ – “Taking A Break From Bloggin Brahs” – Solo. I get my first shout out in the sphere.

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/12/generation-princess-are-all-women-slores/ – “Generation Princess: Are All Women Slores?” – Solo. A must read for those noticing the not-so trend of self-shooters.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/09/06/women-studies/ – “Women Studies” – Rolo Tomassi.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/08/29/year-one/ – “Year One” – Rolo Tomassi.  Rolo, gets up in your ass with this one. It’s a compilation of some his best posts of his first year in the manosphere.

http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/2012/09/10/the-contract-part-3-pua-instructor-speers-fallout-with-the-venusian-arts-crew/ -“The Contract Part 3: PUA instructor Speer’s Fallout With The Venusian Arts Crew” – Social Kenny. I’m still tripping off the PUA wars man.

Once again, stop the TL:DR shit. Read, learn and apply.

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Flexibility

In my opinion after trial and error, I have come to the conclusion that one of the only hard and fast rules is be wary of hypergamy.  I know you might read sites that might say “this theory is the only theory that works,” “do this theory and she will love you forever and will never leave,” “do this or be labeled beta (or what ever term you equate negativity with)” but I have found that sometimes the very rule you break might be the one you can use to your advantage.

In the manosphere the latest trend is no fat chicks.  Well, sometimes you might need to break that dry spell and may end up smashing a chubby chick, only if I found her cute. (I can’t do 300 or 400 lbs, I can’t bribe my dick that way).  Did I follow the rules? No. Did I feel better after busting that nut? Yes, especially if it was one of the times I had a three month dry spell.

My point is that you have to find out what rules you must follow and which ones you can break and remain flexible. Who knows you might come up with a rule that might be beneficial

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Don’t Hate the Color. Hate the Game. Even Then, Don’t Hate That

This has to be the stupidest shit ever, hating on a man with game because of his race.  This has to be the most catty, feminine ass bullshit I’ve read in the manosphere.  I guess some of these retarded fucks don’t get simple points such as:

Game is needed regardless of race.

Women of all races, creeds, orientation, religions, etc. have hypergamous tendencies.

Men of all races, creeds, orientation, religions, etc can benefit from game.  (Yea it ties into the first point but it needs to be said again for those who didn’t get it.)

And the most important one and this is the shocker…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ready?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here it is….

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE SEXUAL MARKET PLACE GIVES THREE-FOURTHS OF AN IOTA OF A FUCK IF YOU’RE AFRICAN-AMERICAN, ASIAN, WEST INDIAN, NATIVE AMERICAN OR ETC.

 

Prime example of a hated PUA who’s not the “typical” straight (more or less), white male: Justin Wayne.  He’s black. You don’t say? I’ve seen some of his video footage of him infield.  I think he has good game, I like his style of game, it’s sort of how I want my game to be but I’m developing my own style. He seems to be good with direct and indirect game, whatever those terms mean and has a style that works for him.However,  I’ve read plenty of comments on him and most of the comments are among the lines of following thought processes:

 

“The white bitch is giving him play because he’s black and she’s scared he’s going to rape or mug her.” I guess that goes against all women having rape fantasies. I guess the new maxim someone will soon come out with is: All women have rape fantasies and it’s perfectly ok….unless the guy doing is non-white.

Miss me with that bullshit.

“He’s a thug, all niggers are thugs.” The original term for thug, comes from the Central Indian word thugee. But that’s another debate.  Yet I see  a lot of “white PUAs” or white boys trying to emulate some of the thug culture and trying to make it appear safe.  I’m in no way shape or form a racist and whatever game works for you homie, do you.

 

Again, miss me with that “he-can-mack-because-of-affirmative-action” bullshit. I thought we were on here to take the red pill and learn to get better women and to better ourselves. Hell I’ve even seen this hate towards asian PUAs.  The thing is, women are attracted to who they are attracted to.  If a white chick likes black dudes, guess what…she likes black dudes.  If an Inuit likes white guys, guess what….she likes white guys.  If you don’t meet her criteria because she disqualified you based on what attracts her, then just move on. Yes, I know it sound like I made a complaint in my post  “We Are At War In Dating,” but I keep it pushing.  People, there’s a difference between observation and hate.  An observation is objective and hate is subjective. If you’re mad because some non-white’s have great game, how is that helping you? It’s not. Get out there and develop your own, take parts from what you think works and tailor your shit to it.

I thought only women used shaming language, I guess they’re not the only ones.

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Tailor Your Game To Suit You

It’s good read game blogs, in moderation of course and learn some of their techniques, mindsets and etc, but only one thing is missing. They’re not YOU. You have to take what you learn and tailor it to your situation, personality and whatever factors are present. You may be good at caveman game and a lot of females respond to it, however if it’s not in your personality to do that all the time, then tone some of that shit down. If you’re not that much of a smooth talker, don’t make that your default game. Take some classes, watch a few videos or talk to some of your smoother buddies about it.

One thing that I can tell you that might work is to just learn the fundamentals of game and work from there. How do you think Jordan and Kobe got good at basketball. They worked on the fundamentals and added bits of themselves from there.

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Confirmation That I Will Go Through

After watching a couple of shows and filtering through what I’ve learned. I hate to say it, I see so many dark art tactics at work that actually work. I’ve even seen some in person lately. Are we as humans really like this?

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30 Days Of Self-Improvement

Reading a couple of blogs, especially Solo’s, I’ve decided I’m going to do 30 Days of Self-Improvement. I actually did something similar to this a few years ago and it worked great. Fucked up thing is that I let everything slip. I’m not as bad off as I was then but I believe that one should never stop improving no matter where they are in life. So starting this minute I’m on Day 1.

To Do List:

Continue with Insanity Workout

Listen to Mack Lessons Radio podcast

Holla at 3-5 girls on a causal level (Convo only, no sex to prevent projecting thirsty energy.)

Start back not being outcome dependent

Clean out any music that could be classified as simp music.

Stop beating off to porn.

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