You Are Always Opening

One thing that I dislike about PUA game is some try to over-complicate simple shit.  For example opening.  Opening is basically starting a conversation. The key word in here is “open” that means open your mouth and say some shit.  Whenever you make the first move when you talk you are in essence “opening” her. There’s really no need for a complicated diagram of communication or a book of routines (not shitting on Love Systems, RSD  or any company), unless you really feel you need one, I’m not here to judge. Just simply open your mouth and say “hi,” “hello”, “bonjour” , “hola,” “konichiwa” or “how are you,” however I don’t recommend you ask “what’s good?” that shit’s played out.  If she walks away after you give a simple hello, then charge her ass to the game for not having the common courtesy or some basic social skills. I can almost guarantee you that most other women won’t be thrown off by a simple “hello.”

This same dynamic applies with EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET. As long as your mouth is open, consider yourself opening her.  Stop making simple shit complicated and use your mouthpiece. 

Why So Serious? Its Her Damn Outburst

……not yours. A lot of men seem to jump everytime a
woman has an outburst. Get used to it brother, its encoded in her DNA. Although both sexes have emotions (that’s what seperates us from robots and soon to be sex bots), the emotional realm belongs MAINLY to women.

Since most women aren’t physically stronger than men, with the exception of the chicks on American Gladiators, they rely more on emotional strength. Women are hard-wired (well soft) to throw childlike trantrums as a form of soft dominance.

If you’ve ever given in to a tantrum and felt like a bitch afterwards, then yea, you got indirectly punked. There are sometimes these emotional outbursts are genuine: death in the family, hard day at work or school. However if your head is telling you that its silly and you’re fighting over some bullshit like who left the toil seat up, just let her ass talk.

Fantasize about (insert your favorite eye candy here) or just nod and say “ok,” “whatever,” “cool.” Show little to no emotion. It’s her emotional outburst, not yours. Let her ride that shit out. Don’t get caught up in her wave, just calmly surf that bitch back to the surface.

What I’m Reading 9-14-2012

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/14/taking-a-break-from-bloggin-brahs/ – “Taking A Break From Bloggin Brahs” – Solo. I get my first shout out in the sphere.

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2012/09/12/generation-princess-are-all-women-slores/ – “Generation Princess: Are All Women Slores?” – Solo. A must read for those noticing the not-so trend of self-shooters.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/09/06/women-studies/ – “Women Studies” – Rolo Tomassi.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/08/29/year-one/ – “Year One” – Rolo Tomassi.  Rolo, gets up in your ass with this one. It’s a compilation of some his best posts of his first year in the manosphere.

http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/2012/09/10/the-contract-part-3-pua-instructor-speers-fallout-with-the-venusian-arts-crew/ -“The Contract Part 3: PUA instructor Speer’s Fallout With The Venusian Arts Crew” – Social Kenny. I’m still tripping off the PUA wars man.

Once again, stop the TL:DR shit. Read, learn and apply.

Flexibility

In my opinion after trial and error, I have come to the conclusion that one of the only hard and fast rules is be wary of hypergamy.  I know you might read sites that might say “this theory is the only theory that works,” “do this theory and she will love you forever and will never leave,” “do this or be labeled beta (or what ever term you equate negativity with)” but I have found that sometimes the very rule you break might be the one you can use to your advantage.

In the manosphere the latest trend is no fat chicks.  Well, sometimes you might need to break that dry spell and may end up smashing a chubby chick, only if I found her cute. (I can’t do 300 or 400 lbs, I can’t bribe my dick that way).  Did I follow the rules? No. Did I feel better after busting that nut? Yes, especially if it was one of the times I had a three month dry spell.

My point is that you have to find out what rules you must follow and which ones you can break and remain flexible. Who knows you might come up with a rule that might be beneficial

Don’t Hate the Color. Hate the Game. Even Then, Don’t Hate That

This has to be the stupidest shit ever, hating on a man with game because of his race.  This has to be the most catty, feminine ass bullshit I’ve read in the manosphere.  I guess some of these retarded fucks don’t get simple points such as:

Game is needed regardless of race.

Women of all races, creeds, orientation, religions, etc. have hypergamous tendencies.

Men of all races, creeds, orientation, religions, etc can benefit from game.  (Yea it ties into the first point but it needs to be said again for those who didn’t get it.)

And the most important one and this is the shocker…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ready?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here it is….

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE SEXUAL MARKET PLACE GIVES THREE-FOURTHS OF AN IOTA OF A FUCK IF YOU’RE AFRICAN-AMERICAN, ASIAN, WEST INDIAN, NATIVE AMERICAN OR ETC.

 

Prime example of a hated PUA who’s not the “typical” straight (more or less), white male: Justin Wayne.  He’s black. You don’t say? I’ve seen some of his video footage of him infield.  I think he has good game, I like his style of game, it’s sort of how I want my game to be but I’m developing my own style. He seems to be good with direct and indirect game, whatever those terms mean and has a style that works for him.However,  I’ve read plenty of comments on him and most of the comments are among the lines of following thought processes:

 

“The white bitch is giving him play because he’s black and she’s scared he’s going to rape or mug her.” I guess that goes against all women having rape fantasies. I guess the new maxim someone will soon come out with is: All women have rape fantasies and it’s perfectly ok….unless the guy doing is non-white.

Miss me with that bullshit.

“He’s a thug, all niggers are thugs.” The original term for thug, comes from the Central Indian word thugee. But that’s another debate.  Yet I see  a lot of “white PUAs” or white boys trying to emulate some of the thug culture and trying to make it appear safe.  I’m in no way shape or form a racist and whatever game works for you homie, do you.

 

Again, miss me with that “he-can-mack-because-of-affirmative-action” bullshit. I thought we were on here to take the red pill and learn to get better women and to better ourselves. Hell I’ve even seen this hate towards asian PUAs.  The thing is, women are attracted to who they are attracted to.  If a white chick likes black dudes, guess what…she likes black dudes.  If an Inuit likes white guys, guess what….she likes white guys.  If you don’t meet her criteria because she disqualified you based on what attracts her, then just move on. Yes, I know it sound like I made a complaint in my post  “We Are At War In Dating,” but I keep it pushing.  People, there’s a difference between observation and hate.  An observation is objective and hate is subjective. If you’re mad because some non-white’s have great game, how is that helping you? It’s not. Get out there and develop your own, take parts from what you think works and tailor your shit to it.

I thought only women used shaming language, I guess they’re not the only ones.

These Bitches In My Phone Game

Having pictures of bitches in your phone can be a good or bad thing. In my opinion it’s a good thing. Why? Because it shows that women want you, that you’re desirable by the opposite sex.  I’m not a PUA and don’t know all the jargon and acronyms/abbreviation but I think that it hints at DHV (demonstration of high value I believe) and social proof.  In my opinon it depends on her value relative to yours.  I think it’s especially good when these women wear sexy ass dresses, bikinis and some have even been bold enough to tell me  to put their pics of them in boyshorts and as their contact picture when they pop up. (I think it’s some sort of way to mark her territory.) I’ve had this done before unintentionally had some women look at me with the damn-this-dude-got-swag-face and drop off the digits and trying to compete with the other chick. Some form of hypergamy is my guess.

The bad side is if you have too much value over her (but then again some women are like that) and give off too much of a player vibe (Here again I call bullshit and call this a subconscious shit test) you might scare her off.  If starts to draw back give her a little assurance, even if you’re just going in for the lay.  My advice, don’t delete pics that girls send you. Hide the XXX rated shit, no matter how fine she is. Aim for something seductive and sensual like a girl with a nice figure and her wearing a dress that shows off every immaculate curve and her blowing a kiss or some shit. It may work or it may not but at least she knows she’s not fuckin with a blue pill wimp.

Rant: The Sexual Market Place

The Sexual Market Place won’t change in the direction we want within in the next 50-70 years, so why would I sit here and complain about it.  If I’m learning about hypergamy and learning to navigate it, I at least have a life preserver on if I get thrown into the rough seas and have a chance to get back up on land and keep pushing. I understand the pain of everything wanting to return to how it was before. Hearing about the old school SMP made me jealous but, it is what it is and we as men have to just rock with the new market and keep going. Even if it means we have to keep hamsters spinning and keeping women/hoes/bitches/sluts in check. If you want to be ultra realistic about it,  trying to slut shame this generation 25-40 probably work as well as trying to use a foam wall to stop a bulldozer. Some pieces of foam might caught up in the gears and stop it temporary but not enough to make it semi-permanent or permanent

Tailor Your Game To Suit You

It’s good read game blogs, in moderation of course and learn some of their techniques, mindsets and etc, but only one thing is missing. They’re not YOU. You have to take what you learn and tailor it to your situation, personality and whatever factors are present. You may be good at caveman game and a lot of females respond to it, however if it’s not in your personality to do that all the time, then tone some of that shit down. If you’re not that much of a smooth talker, don’t make that your default game. Take some classes, watch a few videos or talk to some of your smoother buddies about it.

One thing that I can tell you that might work is to just learn the fundamentals of game and work from there. How do you think Jordan and Kobe got good at basketball. They worked on the fundamentals and added bits of themselves from there.

On Hating Women

When I’ve looked across a lot of the manosphere blogs, I tend to see a common theme, hatred for women. Yes, I agree a lot of the shit they do is off the wall and fucked up to the core. Not all do that but the majority can and do and all of them have the capability to do so. I empathize with those screwed over in divorce and those who try to pin another man’s kids on them. I’ve had that happen before but I was smart enough to get a DNA test and kicked that hoe straight to the curb.  Yes, I agree with the no white knighting, no mangina-ism and no simping. Since I’ve followed these philosophies, my life has been better and my interactions with women have become better.

I can be pissed at women and a lot of their bullshit rationalizations. However, I can’t hate them. To me focusing on something you hate is a waste of energy. If you hate women so much, then why blog about them, and how to sleep with them. Why not post about a hobby or something?

Confirmation That I Will Go Through

After watching a couple of shows and filtering through what I’ve learned. I hate to say it, I see so many dark art tactics at work that actually work. I’ve even seen some in person lately. Are we as humans really like this?